If you’re a woman who is tired of playing small, consider this your wake-up call!

Don’t wait for the ‘perfect time’

The first thing you need to understand is that there is no such thing as the perfect time to act! Stop listening to that little voice in your head that says, “Wait a little; you’re not ready.” The truth is nobody ever feels 100% ready! The key is to start, using what you have.

Define your ideal woman

Visualize who you want to be in the near future. Consider how she dresses, speaks, walks, the kind of energy she brings into a room, and her values. Write it all down and reflect on it daily. This may not make sense right now but take the time to study the story of Marilyn Monroe and how she became the woman she was. The clearer your vision, the easier it will be to work towards it.

Connect with role models

Create a list of women who inspire you or embody the traits of your dream woman. Study their journeys, habits, and even their mistakes. This is not to imitate them (as you have a unique path), but about extracting lessons and tips that will help you achieve your goals.

Take action and stay consistent

What steps do you need to take to become your ideal woman? Do you need to change your style, read more, or practice self-discipline? Begin by enrolling in an online course, reading a book, attending a workshop, or joining a supportive group. The focus here is to take intentional steps towards self-improvement, and you must remain consistent, even on challenging days.

Be determined and seek the right support This goal cannot be achieved in isolation. Beyond believing in yourself and making progress, you will need the support of the right people who will encourage you and hold you accountable. These individuals don’t have to be your close friends; be prepared to step out of your comfort zone and find those who will motivate you to strive for better.